Everyone has gotten to a crossroad before, where they had to choose between good and bad, to do or not to do. Maybe you are there, in the middle of the ‘x’ right now trying to decide which turn to take. But your best choice here will be to make a choice. That’s so much better than just giving up. In a world that is constantly changing, we sometimes find it difficult figuring out the answers to even the simplest problems we face. Here are answers to thirteen of the “why” questions.
WHY YOU NEVER SEEM TO KNOW WHERE TO START
It’s because you think about the problem too much. You can’t have it all figured out at once. So start somewhere, anywhere and you’ll see that things will start to look clearer and eventually fall in line.
WHY PEOPLE ALWAYS BRING YOU DOWN
Admit it- The slap of regret of knowing that you could have done better at something yourself instead of relying on another person, or regarding others opinions over yours is one of the worst feelings ever! It’s basically because you put so much of your life in the hands of others. Take charge of your own life! Start making your own decisions and taking responsibility for your life. It’s way better to make your own bad decisions than to allow someone’s influence to cause you to make the bad decisions, knowing that you could have been smart enough to avoid it. Give yourself some credit!
WHY YOU HATE YOUR JOB
It probably may not even be your irritating boss, but simply because your work isn’t something you are passionate about. Try finding something you love to do. When passion wakes you up from bed to go get work done, trust me, problems will just pass over you like a breeze and you’ll see that you’re fine.
WHY YOU DON’T HAVE GOOD FRIENDS
They say you attract who you are, and what you do for others is what they will do for you— kindness is contagious. If you are good to someone, they will most likely, pay you back with kindness. So you just may have to check how good a friend you are to those around you.
WHY YOU THINK YOU CAN’T REACH YOUR GOALS
You can be much more than you think. Focus on improving your self esteem because when you live a life of positivity and optimism about who you are and what you do, you will realize that nothing is impossible. So many times I have found myself in situations where I thought there was no way through, but just as I make up my mind to do something else, I end up right back trying to find a solution again— positivity and optimism. Then I try again a couple more times and it works! Then I realized that I was close to the solution than I imagined. Giving up should never be an option.
WHY THAT PERSON OR THING ALWAYS IRRITATES YOU
It’s because you make it happen. You don’t have to deal with anything you don’t want. Learn to say no and walk away more often.
WHY YOU’RE ALWAYS UPSET
The moment I learned not to give a damn about what others think or say was the beginning of my happiness. You need to realize that what people say to you or think about you doesn’t define you— you’re who you are, and they say what they want to say.
WHY YOU ARE NOT GOOD AT ANYTHING
Be focused— pick one thing and dedicate all your time and effort to doing it to perfection. Learn to not give up too easily, to do what you want, and not what others want you to do or what everyone else is doing.
WHY YOU DON’T HAVE A LOT OF MONEY
Add value to the world. All the millionaires and billionaires in the world today achieved what they have because they gave to the world what no other had to offer, and just made things better.
WHY YOU ARE NOT HAPPY
True happiness comes from within. Nothing in this world can make you happy forever. Everything is temporal. So find that happiness within yourself which cannot be influenced by temporary fulfillment.
WHY YOU ARE UNCOMFORTABLE ABOUT YOURSELF
Stop asking yourself “what will others think?” Understand that no one really cares unless you give them a reason to. If your body language shows that you are not happy or comfortable with your hair (or something), people will notice and pick on it. But if you confidently rock it, no one will even notice.
WHY YOUR GOALS SCARE YOU
It’s probably because you are on to something big. Just go do it already! Remember that the harder the struggle, the sweeter the glory!
WHY YOU HAVEN’T STARED THIS POST OR COMMENTED YET
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